Hey friends.

no porn

Ok, so yesterday I put up this meme about naturism NOT being porn. Right away, the same guy (itsmyprivatelife) who bashed my previous meme about #NoBodyShame and accused me of being a “hypocrite” has done it again, trying to bash me again and accusing me of being a bad example.

https://itsmyprivatelife.wordpress.com/2015/11/13/mean-memes-meaning/

There’s nothing “mean” about the meme. This meme about naturism not being porn (It’s not who we are, and it’s not OK) has to do with what much of society thinks of nudism/naturism–most people do not understand our way of life, and automatically link nudity to sex. What this meme means is that porn is not what naturism is about, and it’s not OK that people automatically link the fact that we are naked to being something sexual or shameful. Absolutely nothing mean about the meme, it’s simply saying that our way of life is nothing sexual, our casual nudity is just natural and there’s no reason to automatically link casual nudity to sex or porn. “[Porn] is not who we are, and it’s not OK [for people to think that about our way of life].”

As for the “Itsmyprivatelife” blogger, I don’t really care what he thinks about my memes anymore. If that’s the way he feels, I’m sorry he feels that way but I do not like people accusing me of being things I’m not, especially when the guy doesn’t know me. I don’t like people automatically judging me just to make me out to be the bad guy. If you don’t understand something, you should clear it up with them, but don’t automatically come to conclusions and write crap like this blogger does. I’m glad to know I’m not alone–he’s done this to other nudist/naturist bloggers too. He also says I don’t have a “sense of humor”–how would he know? I DO have a sense of humor, but what he said was not funny to me.

Bottom line, it’s like my teachers always taught me in elementary school to treat others the way you want to be treated, and always remember the “Thumper” theory (referring to a line from Disney’s “Bambi”)–in the words of the bunny Thumper, “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say nothin’ at all”. If you wouldn’t like people bashing your blog posts, then don’t do it to others. Some people just need to keep their rude, biased opinions to themselves–I’m just lettin’ it go like water off a duck’s back.

Hope y’all have a great day, and nude on!

Your pal,
Buck

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